Title: LPT : when apologising, focus on your actions and how they hurt someone, do not apologise for your character flaws
Guid: t3_1ed6okl
Descr:
Apologising for your character flaws- e.g “I’m sorry I’m so selfish”/“im sorry I’m a bad person”- can come off as manipulative and makes the recipient feel awkward. Even if your intended message was genuine remorse, it does not give that effect
It is much better to focus on how you hurt someone than how you felt about hurting someone. Instead of saying “I’m sorry I’m selfish”, say “I’m sorry I didn’t consider your feelings”. Instead of saying “I’m sorry I’m a bad person”, say “I’m sorry I hurt you like that”.
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/u/BlackberryAgile193 [link] [comments]When apologising, focus on your actions and how they hurt someone, do not apologise for your character flaws
Apologising for your character flaws- e.g “I’m sorry I’m so selfish”/“im sorry I’m a bad person”- can come off as manipulative and makes the recipient feel awkward. Even if your intended message was genuine remorse, it does not give that effect
It is much better to focus on how you hurt someone than how you felt about hurting someone. Instead of saying “I’m sorry I’m selfish”, say “I’m sorry I didn’t consider your feelings”. Instead of saying “I’m sorry I’m a bad person”, say “I’m sorry I hurt you like that”.
When apologising, focus on your actions and how they hurt someone, do not apologise for your character flaws
Apologising for your character flaws- e.g “I’m sorry I’m so selfish”/“im sorry I’m a bad person”- can come off as manipulative and makes the recipient feel awkward. Even if your intended message was genuine remorse, it does not give that effect
It is much better to focus on how you hurt someone than how you felt about hurting someone. Instead of saying “I’m sorry I’m selfish”, say “I’m sorry I didn’t consider your feelings”. Instead of saying “I’m sorry I’m a bad person”, say “I’m sorry I hurt you like that”.
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Title: LPT It's exactly as easy to put on tinted safety glasses as it is sunglasses when mowing. Do yourself a favor and protect your eyes.
Guid: t3_1ed517n
Descr: submitted by /u/Chance_Answer7984
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It's exactly as easy to put on tinted safety glasses as it is sunglasses when mowing. Do yourself a favor and protect your eyes.
It's exactly as easy to put on tinted safety glasses as it is sunglasses when mowing. Do yourself a favor and protect your eyes.
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